People know NOTHING about this track right here. This is that love song for all the underground hip hop heads out there. Truth Enola did his thing on this. But Jean Grae brought it home on her verse. I mean, what is better than love that was nourishing and now that has to end? I mean, their love IS venomous. Right?

But what happens when that “ill lovin’” just doesn’t want to let go?

Question:

So I still like my ex. But I have a boyfriend. My ex and I are still friends. He doesn’t like that I have a boyfriend. I told him to get a girlfriend, but he said that if he did then he wouldn’t be able to talk to me. He lives far away and I never get to see him. But, I don’t want to lose him. I don’t know what I should do. Can you give me any advice?

Answer:

Of course, I can give you advice: drop his ass off to the nearest corner so he can sell that foolishness to someone else.

You SAY you and your ex are friends. I beg to differ. Actually, you are probably correct (in your perception of the situation). But, does your ex think of you as “a friend” or “the one that I want to keep around or possibly get back with”? If he is truly your friend, why is he trying to work you over so hard about your relationship? Why is he working so hard to cause conditional contusions to your companionship?

Oh, wait. I understand why he is doing this: you keep leaving the door open for him to play the silly reindeer games.

Get caught up if you want to.

Get caught up if you want to.

I understand: you want him as a friend. Trust me, I understand. You want to keep him around because he means so much to you. The love that you have for him can ease your pain and actually motivate you to make great strides in your present relationship. To you, keeping him around can be copasetic.

But the problem has just begun. Let me break this down in “player language”:

Sometimes, you have to re educate them to the purpose of their goals and desires.

Sometimes, you have to re educate them to the purpose of their goals and desires.

In reality, though, your ex needs to be excommunicated. He wants to push his pimp hand on you because you still want to be his trick. You still want him to be the “bottom bitch” (main girl) deep down. But a pimp process don’t work like that. Once you leave one daddy, you go to the other one. Going back is difficult and disrespectful. So, don’t do it.

Now dig that.

**takes off player hat and gets back in regular mode**

So, do you understand now? If not, then you just need to leave the ex-boyfriend alone and focus on your relationship. Close the door and lock it. See each other through the window pane or the peep hole. He still wants to be number one. He has been waved. He has been picked up by another team. So, he needs to leave that Randy Moss stuff at home and leave you alone.

One hand catch on you lames.

One hand catch on you lames.

And vice versa.

‘Nuff said and ‘Nuff respect!!!

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