People are a Blessing or a Lesson – PT 104

This post was brought to you by AB’s new 45 Series Vol. 1 single “Stop Fakin’/Stevie’s Lament”. Please enjoy the music while you read.

When it comes to the dating scene, and life in general, a person will be either two things: a blessing or a lesson. You will either have someone that will always […]

The “Dwyane Wade Gabrielle Union Fiasco

Well, this is awkward.

To think, right after I seen the Dwyane Wade’s Christmas card with him, Gabrielle Union, and the kids do we come to hear that he supposedly has an outside child on the way. We ALL know that the fecal matter exploded while the fan was going. There was nothing but mess […]

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    Take the Time to Realize You Love Someone – Plain Truth 98

Take the Time to Realize You Love Someone – Plain Truth 98


Sometimes, there are situations where your significant other seems to be “trippin’ out”. Maybe they aren’t acknowledging the obvious. Or, maybe you aren’t realizing the truth of the situation. No matter the situation, this Prince Markie Dee song makes sense. In retrospect, people have to figure out what their present situation holds.   […]

What is Love – I Just Want Opinions

Travelling through this thing called “life”, I notice that many of us have differing opinions on certain things. Many people may think that Michael Jordan is the best player, while others harken back to the days of Bill Russell. Also, some may think that the Beatles are the best rock band ever. Then again, […]

Women Need to Respect Themselves – Plain Truth 91

In recent history (as in a few months ago), life coach Abiola Abrams answered the concerned letter of a fan on Essence.com. This fan was in need of intimacy intervention. Her problem came into play when it dealt with her husband and his use of racial slurs:
My man keeps calling me a “nigger bitch” […]

MTV Video Music Awards – Fun, Flash, and Fuckery

I don’t know why I do this to myself. Wait, I lied: I do it for you all. I do it for the “fans” that I imagine I have. I also do it for the sake of doing it. This pays no money. Most people don’t pay me any mind. But for those that […]

When Your Ex Still Has Feelings – Plain Truth 89



This song by The Dream is quite the example of essential listening. It is about breaking up. Actually, it is the act of “making sense of breaking up”. It is these type of situations that become heavily complicated. Too many times, we try to make it work for the sake of “making it work”.

And […]

Don’t Take His Love for Porn Personal – Plain Truth 85

Warning: what I am going to talk about isn’t for the prude or highly religious. It is, however, for the sexually secure, the carnal, and those that want to understand their own sexuality. This is your warning.

Porn Star was a pretty good song coming from a pretty good album. T.I. wanted to bring the […]

When Love Happens Way Too Fast – Plain Truth 84

I bet people remember this song from the 90’s. It referenced “moving too fast in life” and making sure you “take your time with your decisions”. The fast life is just that: fast. Once it is over, then it is over. After the ending, there is nothing you can really do about it.

Yet, the […]

When Your Ex Just Won’t Let Go – Plain Truth 81

People know NOTHING about this track right here. This is that love song for all the underground hip hop heads out there. Truth Enola did his thing on this. But Jean Grae brought it home on her verse. I mean, what is better than love that was nourishing and now that has to end? […]